we love that our library offers free family passes to some local museums. this month we took advantage of the one to the north museum of science and natural history. instead of bemoaning the fact that we so rarely can do field trips with all 7 kids, i've decided to embrace the relative ease of keeping track of only 4 (and console myself with the fact that the oldest 3 have been to many, many more museums, even if they don't remember all of them).
it doesn't look very big from the outside, but inside there was so much to do. i feel like we went through it quickly, and we were there for over 2 hours. the discover room alone (with all those delightful labeled boxes of things the kids could touch, including animal feet, skulls, native american things, etc.). we're getting ready to study astronomy in the spring, so their whole section on that was inspiring, not to mention the traveling exhibit on blood suckers which was very well done and full of information.
Friday, January 22, 2010
Thursday, January 21, 2010
Wednesday, January 20, 2010
half a century
robin turned 50 on the 18th, so we attempted to have a little surprise something for him. t.j. had given us a gift certificate to red lobster for christmas, so, since it's our friends darrell and sue's favorite place to eat, we went with them, and the plan was to have everyone be at the house when we got back. but there was a congregational meeting at church (we didn't go because we're not members yet. the members classes are during sunday school and since we *teach* sunday school, we haven't been able to do all the classes yet. we've met with pastors to finish 3 of the 4, now we just have to find time to meet with the last group of people) and people didn't get there before we got home. that was okay. all their kids were already at the house, and robin loves people, so i think he was surprised and happy. tj's dad shares a birthday with robin, but is a few years younger :)
Tuesday, January 19, 2010
2 days after christmas
the sunday after christmas, we headed to virginia to meet my mom and jerry, my sister sherry and her family from michigan (sans mark-we missed you-because of his new job) and my brother billy and his family from tennessee. we met sherry and her 4 kids somewhere on 81 so i could help navigate since she wasn't feeling well.
we were meeting in virginia because my mom turned 70 on january 2nd, and she wanted to treat us to a mountain getaway vacation together, which meant renting a lodge that sleeps 22. it was beautiful and we had a GREAT time. we went to the masanutten water park and on walks looking for animal tracks (lots of deer, the kids think they saw bear, and lots of little birds, squirrel, etc.).
so glad we didn't have to drive from florida, and that we're close enough now to see my family more than once a year. thanks mom and jerry!
we were meeting in virginia because my mom turned 70 on january 2nd, and she wanted to treat us to a mountain getaway vacation together, which meant renting a lodge that sleeps 22. it was beautiful and we had a GREAT time. we went to the masanutten water park and on walks looking for animal tracks (lots of deer, the kids think they saw bear, and lots of little birds, squirrel, etc.).
so glad we didn't have to drive from florida, and that we're close enough now to see my family more than once a year. thanks mom and jerry!
Tuesday, January 12, 2010
also before christmas.....
we are blessed to have an awesome sledding hill behind our development, close enough for the kids to walk. on this particular trip, i was out looking for the wayward puppies (who keep digging out under the temporary chicken wire fence we've put out) and took my camera with me to catch a few shots before the sun went down. their friend, veeble (sp?) was with them, seen in the picture of the jump they made.
at the end of a beautiful day....
at the end of a beautiful day....
scenes from christmas 2
Monday, January 11, 2010
scenes from christmas 1
Sunday, January 10, 2010
trials
i've been thinking a lot lately about trials.
friends in a courtroom hoping for justice for the murder of their disabled son at the hands of his night nurse.
relatives fighting for their lives against a cancer that has no known cause.
friends welcoming a child into the world with a known genetic disorder that has already claimed the life of her sibling.
a sister losing her vision yet suffering with joy.
and i got to thinking, as i watch my kids wrestle and come and go with friends, that many of us have a very limited view of what a trial is.
we think it's a rough day.
or a situation that we don't know how to handle on our own (that we will have forgotten about by next tuesday).
but no--a trial in a court of law (certainly james knew his stuff) can go on indefinitely.
i guess that's why he continued:
friends in a courtroom hoping for justice for the murder of their disabled son at the hands of his night nurse.
relatives fighting for their lives against a cancer that has no known cause.
friends welcoming a child into the world with a known genetic disorder that has already claimed the life of her sibling.
a sister losing her vision yet suffering with joy.
and i got to thinking, as i watch my kids wrestle and come and go with friends, that many of us have a very limited view of what a trial is.
we think it's a rough day.
or a situation that we don't know how to handle on our own (that we will have forgotten about by next tuesday).
but no--a trial in a court of law (certainly james knew his stuff) can go on indefinitely.
i guess that's why he continued:
and let endurance have its perfect result, that you may be
perfect and complete, lacking in nothing.
james 1:4
what a promise! we think.
if we just endure, we'll be perfect and want nothing.
the problem is, we cannot do that on our own.
we... don't have the wisdom.
we... don't know where to begin.
we... don't have the capacity for that kind of knowledge.
if we just endure, we'll be perfect and want nothing.
the problem is, we cannot do that on our own.
we... don't have the wisdom.
we... don't know where to begin.
we... don't have the capacity for that kind of knowledge.
fortunately, he doesn't stop there. he tells us exactly what to do:
but if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God,
who gives to all men generously and without reproach,
and it will be given to him.
james 1:5
what's the catch, we ask?
but let him ask in faith without any doubting,for the one who doubts is like the surf of the sea
driven and tossed by the wind.
Tuesday, January 05, 2010
rainy day/winter activities (mops talk)
"it rained and it rained and it rained. piglet told himself that never in all his life, and he was goodness knows how old - three, was it, or four? --never had he seen so much rain. days and days and days. "if only," he thought, as he looked out of the window, "i had been in pooh's house, or chirstopher robin's house, or rabbit's house when it began to rain, then i should have had company all this time, instead of being here all alone, with nothing to do except wonder when it will stop."
a.a. milne "winnie the pooh"
a.a. milne "winnie the pooh"
ever feel like a prisoner to rain in your own home? we wonder, too, with piglet, that if we could just have some company, instead of being alone, it might become more than just another dreary day. today we're going to share some ways to turn a rainy day into something a bit more exciting. i'm not going to share too much with you this morning, to allow you plenty of time to share in your groups what works in your home.
one of the best things you can do, is to prepare ahead of time. prepare a rainy day box that you keep in a special closet or place and inside put things that you don't normally use like:
* age appropriate art supplies *special snacks (for tea time) * books (pop up books are good here) * toys to rotate (train set, duplos, playdough, puzzles) * special toys (magnifying glass, slinky, etc.) * bean bags, * card games *balloons (choking hazard for small children, use with care) * old magazines to be cut up * musical instruments (fill an easter egg with rice and tape around the seam) * junk mail, especially the kind that comes with stickers
try to see your house in terms of centers--different activities that can be done in different areas of your home.
for instance, in the kitchen, you can have your child help you:
-cook
-organize a drawer or cabinet
-make an indoor "sand box" with rice (or oatmeal or lentils or beans) in a large box and various measuring cups, scoops)
-pudding finger paint
-fold kitchen towels (even if they're already folded-small children love this challenge when taught how to do it)
-sweep/scoop up dirt
in the family room you can play some games:
^bean bag toss
^mailbox (write notes--even unintelligible ones)
^carpet raceway
^go fish
^hide and seek--many options here. take turns hiding and seeking a stuffed animal, do a treasure hunt, or make a list of things around your house for your child to find, like a scavenger hunt)
^put painter's tape on the floor for hopscotch or balance beam
^animal charades
^grocery store
^if pickles could talk (any inanimate object in your house).
true confessions: when i was potty training my boys, and i knew they had to go, but they didn't think they did, i would make the potty seat/mouth "talk" to the boys saying "i'm thirsty" and they would fall for it every time and giggle the whole way...
^gymnastics skills
^stretching
^old fashioned games like drop a clothespin in a gallon jug, pin the _____ on the ______
in the bathroom, give them a bath just for fun (let them drop in a few drops of food coloring. it won't stain their skin, but they'll get a kick out of watching the color change). teach them how to clean different areas-sink, floor, toilet, cabinets.
you can do an indoor tent or fort, a wall mural (janbrett.com has some free that are great and go along with her books), have a teddy bear picnic, teach them a new song, dance! visit your favorite "other" place (ours has typically been the library or the children's section of a major bookstore).
think of all the things they could do as a momma's helper== sort socks or silverware, practice manners or setting a table, wipe down baseboards, wash windows or walls with just plain water. play musical pots/pans.
art is always fun, but maybe you can do some out of the ordinary things: make a free puzzle by cutting up the front of a cereal box. make a popsicle puzzle by taping 6-10 sticks together, turn it over to the other side, draw a picture on it, then take the tape off and mix up the sticks (works great for readers with a message or Bible verse too). do a surprise bag, or maze, tape markers or crayons to matchbox cars and have them drive/draw on a big piece of pzper. make an obstacle course, or get out soft balls and the laundry basket.
don't forget to go outside and enjoy the rain if possible. have your child use markers to draw on a coffee filter and put them on a cookie sheet out in the rain. make a rain gauge. enjoy!
one of the best things you can do, is to prepare ahead of time. prepare a rainy day box that you keep in a special closet or place and inside put things that you don't normally use like:
* age appropriate art supplies *special snacks (for tea time) * books (pop up books are good here) * toys to rotate (train set, duplos, playdough, puzzles) * special toys (magnifying glass, slinky, etc.) * bean bags, * card games *balloons (choking hazard for small children, use with care) * old magazines to be cut up * musical instruments (fill an easter egg with rice and tape around the seam) * junk mail, especially the kind that comes with stickers
try to see your house in terms of centers--different activities that can be done in different areas of your home.
for instance, in the kitchen, you can have your child help you:
-cook
-organize a drawer or cabinet
-make an indoor "sand box" with rice (or oatmeal or lentils or beans) in a large box and various measuring cups, scoops)
-pudding finger paint
-fold kitchen towels (even if they're already folded-small children love this challenge when taught how to do it)
-sweep/scoop up dirt
in the family room you can play some games:
^bean bag toss
^mailbox (write notes--even unintelligible ones)
^carpet raceway
^go fish
^hide and seek--many options here. take turns hiding and seeking a stuffed animal, do a treasure hunt, or make a list of things around your house for your child to find, like a scavenger hunt)
^put painter's tape on the floor for hopscotch or balance beam
^animal charades
^grocery store
^if pickles could talk (any inanimate object in your house).
true confessions: when i was potty training my boys, and i knew they had to go, but they didn't think they did, i would make the potty seat/mouth "talk" to the boys saying "i'm thirsty" and they would fall for it every time and giggle the whole way...
^gymnastics skills
^stretching
^old fashioned games like drop a clothespin in a gallon jug, pin the _____ on the ______
in the bathroom, give them a bath just for fun (let them drop in a few drops of food coloring. it won't stain their skin, but they'll get a kick out of watching the color change). teach them how to clean different areas-sink, floor, toilet, cabinets.
you can do an indoor tent or fort, a wall mural (janbrett.com has some free that are great and go along with her books), have a teddy bear picnic, teach them a new song, dance! visit your favorite "other" place (ours has typically been the library or the children's section of a major bookstore).
think of all the things they could do as a momma's helper== sort socks or silverware, practice manners or setting a table, wipe down baseboards, wash windows or walls with just plain water. play musical pots/pans.
art is always fun, but maybe you can do some out of the ordinary things: make a free puzzle by cutting up the front of a cereal box. make a popsicle puzzle by taping 6-10 sticks together, turn it over to the other side, draw a picture on it, then take the tape off and mix up the sticks (works great for readers with a message or Bible verse too). do a surprise bag, or maze, tape markers or crayons to matchbox cars and have them drive/draw on a big piece of pzper. make an obstacle course, or get out soft balls and the laundry basket.
don't forget to go outside and enjoy the rain if possible. have your child use markers to draw on a coffee filter and put them on a cookie sheet out in the rain. make a rain gauge. enjoy!
discussion questions
1.) is there anything else you'd like to discuss today?
2.) what is the most challenging thing about a rainy day to you?
3.) what works well in your home on a rainy day?
4.) do you have any positive childhood memories incuding rain?
5.) brainstorm as a group some of your favorite songs/games you plan to teach your child the next rainy/snowy spell....
1.) is there anything else you'd like to discuss today?
2.) what is the most challenging thing about a rainy day to you?
3.) what works well in your home on a rainy day?
4.) do you have any positive childhood memories incuding rain?
5.) brainstorm as a group some of your favorite songs/games you plan to teach your child the next rainy/snowy spell....
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